Identities
Terms I identify with. Some of them will have links to where you can learn what they are. Some of these may also be viewed as "contradictory" or categorized in a way that not everyone would (e.g. orientations as genders).

⛧ Gender modalities ⛤

♫ Cisgender (masculine, neutral, androgynous)
♫ Gay (man)
♫ Genderqueer (man)
♫ GNC (man, kenochoric, xenine)
♫ Inter-expressive (masculine, neutral)
♫ Isogender (masculine, neutral, androgynous)
♫ Revintergender (masculine, androgynous, maverique)
♫ Transgender (masculine, xenine)

⛧ Genders ⛤

♫ Androx
♫ Demiandrogyne
♫ Genderfluid
♫ Integender
♫ Kenochoric
♫ Man
♫ Maverique
♫ Multigender
♫ Neutrois
♫ Veldian
♫ Xenogender

⛧ Orientations ⛤

♫ Ace-spec
♫ Ficto
♫ Gay
♫ Levissexual
♫ Merosexual
♫ Objectum
♫ Omnisexual
♫ Sapphic
♫ Stellian
♫ Torenamoric
♫ Veldian

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Basically, all this means I am intersex in a way where I have XY chromosomes and was born with ambiguous genitalia but was raised as a girl, so I have grounds to consider myself masculine in both trans and cis directions, and others as well.

I am not especially fond of considering myself either transgender or cisgender and prefer to be thought of as intersex, genderqueer, or even gay (i.e. "gay man" instead of "cis man" or "trans man").

I am genderqueer and mostly identify as a man, but I am GNC and consider this to affect my gender and the "kind" of man I am. I present as androgynous-masculine. I partly identify as androgyne, but not entirely (as I don't consider "woman" to really be a part of my gender, even as mixed with "man").

I also identify as other genders in a mostly static experience, with differing intensities. Notably, I am kenochoric and maverique. I started identifying more as maverique when I discovered my intersex condition, which produced newfound connections with masculinity and androgyny as well.

I am xenogender, but I consider this a completely transgender experience that has nothing to do with my intersex condition. That is, I do not feel that I am "biologically" xenogender in the way that I feel I am biologically male, androgynous, AND neutral.

I am gay and I am attracted to genders I perceive as the same or similar to my own, with a marked preference for men. I sometimes experience romantic attraction to non-binary people and have an aesthetic preference for men and non-binary people over women. I am open to having sex or doing kink with all genders, with a preference for men and non-binary people, so I am a torenamoric omnisexual veldian.

I am ace-spec, and whether I am "sex favorable" or not depends on the act. I have a concept of sex that may not be the same as everybody else's, and I prefer sex acts that are seen as "lighter" or "milder" - e.g. cuddling while naked, kissing with sexual intent, etc. My concept of sex does not involve genitals or penetration. It may be elaborated upon elsewhere on this site.

While I am not a woman, I consider it sapphic if I am with a woman or woman/fem-leaning non-binary person. When I am with someone whose gender is more feminine than my own, I feel more like I am playing the role of a butch lesbian rather than a man. I do not, however, become a lesbian or a woman in these situations. Therefore, I am sapphic in an mspec non-binary way.